Choose Love, Always

Love is very broad in general, but definitely all the people around the world felt love, loved and be love. It is a cliche thing to everyone that no one can exactly determine or define because love is "azsxdcfvgb" somewhat you don't understand like "ksdbjwhda". Love matters in each and everyone. We should say it is normal and very hypothetical in same way. Love may affects you, me, our personal life, and other's life. Love will always coincide with life. You cannot love without a life, and your life will never be ultimately happy without a love.

We found love to our family, friends, neighbors and to that certain person who always makes us feel special or that certain person who always makes our heart skips as fast as it could be, fast beyond normal. 

Life never promise us to be always happy, it gets better as we accept things we can't have and can't change. Being kind is much more important than being right. What we need is a patient heart that listens. Fall in love with someone that you think who is right, someone that chooses by your heart and not your mind. Always use your heart in loving the person and use your mind when you needed it, you have to use both wisely. Follow your heart but always use your mind. Know when to step in and to step out. When you think you can't hold on anymore then leave, let go and continue your journey. Life never stops when someone unloved you, life never stops for a single person, there are billions of people in the world and I'm sure you've got one of them, no matter how long, no matter how far the distance, and no matter how hard, if you are both destined then the world will let you meet again and again, but always make a move, never just sit-down and relax, try to put some effort and move and you will surely have what you want because when you want it you will always have it. 

Loving someone requires sacrifice, because you don't only think for yourself but also to the one you love. Always be fair. We are now in a new generation more than millennial era.

A generation where a man and woman are supposed to be equal. Love requires two people, who holds each other together as they explore their own undiscovered self. It requires high volume of understanding and patience. Because love is not a war, it is faithful and loyal. Never ever threaten the one you love, it will always result to unhealthy relationship. Always make each other happy no matter how hard the situation is, trust the love that you had for each other, and always choose each other's side, the side where even if the rest of the world disagree, that one side and that one person will always chooses you. I always believe that through thick and thin, through sickness and in health, through richer or for poorer, till death, that's eternal love. Love where there's no boundary, no fame, no hatred, no fear, no competition, just very transparent. Always cross oceans and mountains for the person you love, because you know he or she will always choose you, but when you think it is helpless or not justifiable then never cross oceans and mountains twice. Love can truly move mountains. Always fight, and never ever give up for love and always give unlimited chances if your heart still chooses them, else regrets will follow. Love is the most precious thing that a person can give, a person who values love is a gift. There are very few people nowadays who value the person more than the feeling itself, and when you got that, never ever let them go, you are just one of the most beyond blessed person when you have that.

Love may be the best but it is more confusing than the rest. Arguments and fights will always be there because for real we were afraid to lose them or they may got trouble or hurt but on the other side, arguments and fights exist when one of them feel less than a love they deserve. That's love, no matter how much you put through, no matter how much love you planted, never ever expect so much in return, it doesn't work like that. Because in two people there will always be more and there will always be less. More love and less love. Sparks will always be there, but it may come and go, don't worry, that is normal but definitely when its gone never ever look for someone else, instead love them more and more, love them more even when it is so hard to love them, love them more when it hurts because love hurts in reality and it is worth it. Suddenly the spark will be back. When both are angry, wait till you calm down because anger is a temporary insanity. You may hurt each other through words when you're angry. Never ever say something when you can't say something nice. Everything can be talk about and can be solve by talking. Talk and communicate and always respect each others side. There will always be three sides, your side, their side, and the right side. Listen and understand.

Sometimes we lost ourselves, we lost the person whom we love, but eventually hold each others hands and never let go, hold and try to reach each other closely, it is the best time that you both need each other. Wait until you will find the answers, don't force it. If there is doubt, then trust the love you have for him or her, trust the love that you both build. If you find something is wrong, always confront each other and always choose to trust each other and defend them from everyone even to yourself. Love each other more and more as you both discover yourselves, love each other when it hurts. Always tell the truth, no matter how ugly the truth is, no matter how unacceptable, no matter how painful, because that is love. 

If you're starting yourself if you're not enough, then think wisely, you are counting the favors. Love is giving without expecting in return. Love is filling what is lacking.

Accept each others differences, accept each others flaws, and weaknesses. Respect each others families, respect each others friends, and respect each others religion and belief. Always fight whenever you think you're right and on the right track. Always and always choose each other. Keep holding and keep fighting! Spread the love.